Oh, and if it is any consolation... My H is a soft spoken creative type with Nice Guy tendencies. When my Mom first met him, she pulled me aside directly and asked, "Is he gay?" My answer was, "No, just evolved."
Funny! (been there)
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
