Hi chel, I see my buddies already came around with great advice.
I cant stress enough how important it is to stay as calm as possible at this point and if and when you talk about separation again, just say you understand his need for some time and let him do as he pleases... I know it is hard but there isnt much else you can do at this point. A separation doesnt necessarily mean the end. If he has been unhappy for months he probably thought it was you that caused his misery. Many WAS when they leave, come to the realisation tht it wasnt their Ss, but themeselves that were the route of the problem. You focus on you as OD says and be strong... K
