Everyone here is speaking the truth. Many of our WASs lead double-lives and once confronted they immediately turn it around so that it is you who made them leave. Whether it's a MLC or not, that's what happens. In a way it's so they are justified in their minds what they are doing.

My W continued to lie to me about her feelings towards the OM until I found a note in her car about them.

That's why it's important to not concentrate on our spouses, but ourselves. If you try to stop and analyze everything they do, you are going to drive yourself crazy. Be happy and content in YOUR life and don't let your H drag you down.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER