nc,

We actually watch it together last night. It was interesting to get his perspective on it. At the end though we were both emotional about the whole thing.

Having trouble finding a good therapist.I spoke to the one my dr. had given me and she sounds like a real weirdo. I wasn't comfortable at all.. so Im still searching.

Things have been good. I have been trying to be more affectionate and more aware then I usually am and Im seeing a change in him from just that. He did get fustrated with me yesterday, but I called him on it right away and his said he was sorry. I didn't drag it on and we continued our conversation.

None of this is easy and trust me I have my bad days, but all in all with some help from a therapist, Im praying that everything will be ok.

T


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.