Golf, volunteer at a Vets home, soup kitchen, old folks home, rebuild a house for the homeless...ask the Chaplin, 1st Sgt, Top III, etc...someone has something going on...see if the Airman in the dorm have something to do...go sky dive...your life doesn't have to revolve around alcohol...go see your parents...before you know it they will be gone...do not fall into that drunk every night and weekend hole...repeat, no booze
Who decides what weekend? I thought you did not have a plan and it was just come and go as she pleases? Did your daughter say anything? What is her plan for your D? You have a right to know...to make sure it doesn't involve any OM.