Well here I am and I need help...

[Maggie999]

I've got the thought demons upon me right now. What if he's lying about wanting to get back together? What if he's secretly calling, emailing her?

Our son is getting married in September and H is his best man. When all of this blew up last week, S gave some serious thought to not having H as his best man - and told H this. This was a huge blow to H. What if H just makes nice until after the wedding? He will be here in one hour and my usual MO is to berate him with all of this, looking for reassurances. I know this is not the answer...I know. But to be duped again...

Maggie