Not trying to be a smart a**--just that it might be worth letting go of that "not my fault" thing, 'cuz it won't serve you in the long run. Recognizing it is more than half the battle, tho!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012