OK, so my reluctant husband left work to go to the counselor with me, and as we sat in the waiting room, she called in to say her daughter had an emergency at the high school, and she would have to reschedule. I could have just broken down right then and there and cried. I didn't, but I could have! I thought for sure he would just be done, but he agreed to reschedule, so I am grateful for that. We will have to wait another week and a half to go, so that's a bummer.
Lucky, I am not sure what brought the turnaround in his attitude. He spent some time with the kids when we were on the freeze out, and he said later that he realized how much he had to lose. He may have read a bit of SSM, but I think he just moved it without reading it. H is pretty sure that he understands perfectly what is going on between us, and sure that he can fix it. He says he knows he needs to be more present in the moment, and that's true, but I knows there's more to it. I guess now I have to be patient. I hate being patient!
