Thanks guys for all of your input. I would love to go to Retro and there is even one close, but its also 4 days after my surgery and I don't think I'll be able to sit for any length of time.
We'll just have to take it one step at a time. Beginner's mind right?

I do think he is right in that what we are doing now is not working. There is no real motivation to move and it is stagnant. Being in the same house will force us to either move on to the next step or kill it once and for all.

Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 05/18/09 07:46 PM.

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M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
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11/17/08 born
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