It's once we get outside of the bedroom that she has a hard time keeping this funspirited play going. Saturday, when we went bikini shopping, we drove past a local dog track/poker room. I suggested that it would be fun to go there sometime. She said she didn't really enjoy playing poker, so then I suggestively said "well you can just dress up, and hang on my arm, and be eye candy." She laughed at first, and sorta seemed to like it, and even added "You mean I could dress in a short sexy skirt and all that?" and I said "Mmmm, yeah," and then she thought a minute and said "well, I don't really play poker," very serious -- sort of a "final say" on the matter.
JMHO...but maybe Mrs. Puppy is having a hard time allowing herself to be someone else with you. She has locked herself into one role and is having a hard time letting it go. She wants to, but maybe shes afraid of what letting you see "that" side of her will do to your relationship. Not realizing that letting you in will only deepen the relationship. Exploring your sexuality with someone also lays your innermost feelings, desires, etc...bare to someone else and I think she fears that most of all. Someone who knows her secret desires and loves her anyway, warts an all.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
