Another newcomer - already finding help

[JKL2009]

Right, didn't think saying that was the way to go. I plan to do that chat tomorrow, talk about the issues, and work in the point you suggested. I think that will be fine won't it?

I am trying to empathize from my WAW's POV, something I didn't do over the past few years and that got us here. I think she needs to see me 1) taking her serious, 2) not dragging my feet for my own selfish reasons, and 3) doing something to give her something to trust and feel more protected.