But here's the thing. At some point, and this is admittedly much easier said than done--you have to decide if you want to be right, or if you want to be happy. Being right will only provide temporary satisfaction.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012