Tougher Than the Rest

[hoosiermama]

Ah, that's the question. I could never answer it for myself, I don't think I can answer it for Mrs. Puppy. Clearly there's a great level of emotional intimacy, which is a good foundation, so it isn't that she doesn't feel safe in general with you. It's about feeling safe to explore who she wants to be sexually. I suppose that would begin with feeling you'd be okay if she pulls out the whips and chains, altho I don't think it will come to that. SOrry I can't be more helpful with a solution--remains an area of mystery to me.