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[JKL2009]

Now my anxiety has jumped a bit. Yesterday I had suggested to my W that we needed to sit down without distractions to discuss issues such as the separation agreement, time lime for selling house, when she plans to start looking for apartment, etc. At first she didn't see why we needed to do that during the week, taking time off, etc. Said maybe we can do it next weekend.

I just got an email from her saying let's go ahead and do my idea and meet tomorrow in the afternoon rather than waiting until the weekend. She said I could swing by her work, we could talk for a while, maybe grab a beer, then pick up S from day care and we all go out to dinner.

How do I approach all this? I want to move forward and work on these issues, as I don't believe in the short term anything can be done to prevent this course of action. I am thinking I just need to be cool, indifferent, agreeable but without just sucking up and doing whatever she asks.

Help!