Got an email from her. Just stuff related to the B'day party this Sat. It's not something I need to answer so I'm not going to reply to it

I'm trying to stay Dark/Dim. Its hard as it seems like a very passive way to get my wife back

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13