"A man can't teach a woman how to explore her own sexuality; she has to take the accountability for that HERSELF, and want to do so, don't you think?."

I think in many ways, ONLY a man that a woman loves and trusts can teach her how to explore her own sexuality. I think that only in the context of the safety of that kind of relationship can she begin that journey. I really think she wants to do that, altho I'm not sure she knows it or can articulate it; she certainly doesn't know how because she keeps heading down blind alleys.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012