I'd REALLY REALLY want to go but that would get my hopes up that things are changing for the good...I'm not sure the knockdown afterwords is worth it at this time, which I think there will be...btw I think there's nothing wrong with telling her why, you're just telling her the truth about what happens when/if you D.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."