Ok, I read the article excerpt that you posted. I honestly didn't know that until after the A was full blown with my ex and I read it in some magazine. I asked him about it and he said that is right. Sex was how he expressed love for me and how he thought I should express it to him. Forget the tons of things I did on a daily basis for him and for us that were my ways of expression. Those just didn't matter.

Without getting into more of those issues in my own situation, it is certainly something I will keep first and formost in my mind during my next relationship. It is give and take and giving to recieve. Someone, somewhere needs to break the cycle.

kat


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