When my wife came around on Sunday afternoon to pick the children up I left a piece of paper with a lettter 'J' (I put 'J' as in Jealousy for a private laugh) and then a phone number I just made up. I left it by the childrens bags so that she could see it on the coffee table, I am sure she noticed the paper seeing what happened after.
As soon as she was gone I turned my mobile off as I had forgotten to give her some money I owed her. She rang the landline which I ignored, I then switched on my mobile very quickly and sure enough there was one voicemail and one text. The first eleven words of her message went like this.."You couldn't wait to get out of the house quick enough". She then went on about the money and a couple of other things about the children I had already discussed with her. She rang again at 8.00pm which I ignored.
Cut to this morning she rang the landline because I hadn't answered. She said something like "I assume you were going to your girlfriends house as you could not wait....". I was shocked that she could come out with a statement like that with no factual evidence to back up her statement. I never confirmed or denyed what she said, I just let her ramble on about other things.
She rang again this afternoon and asked me if I would help her buy and install a trampoline in the garden for our children. I said I would but I would let her know when I have some spare dates. This is the first time she has asked me to help her do anything that was not house related, as she knows I will not have anything to do with the house, seeing as it won't be mine much longer.
I am not making a big deal over this, far from it, I find it kind of funny about assumptions based on a piece of paper and not answering phone calls. Is it coincidence?
Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/18/0905:52 PM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
