In this particular section, all he said is "unfortunately, most of us aren't there yet" and then goes on to describe the various intimacy issues that stand in the way of the above. I didn't see the term "blessed few" in this section but maybe he said it in previous sections and was referring to the same thing.
I do realize that when I'm talking about this mind-blowing sex with my girlfriends, they are mostly looking at me like I have 3 heads. I do talk about sex lives openly with many friends (and have done so over the years), and so far I have not heard anyone describe what I am feeling at all. So I realized I must be blessed and few....but here's the thing: NOW I know that most anyone CAN get to here....I just think that it takes so much work that most people give up. Kind of like a professional endeavor or becoming a doctor. Its something basically anyone can accomplish, but it takes so much time that most people don't try. Which I can understand because having this kind of sex life isn't thier focus, so the effort would not be worth it.
However...I know YOU (lucky) are going to get there or get pretty dang close! You are on that path and its headed the right direction...
