Ok so I emailed H back 3 days later saying basically thanks but no thanks, I've got it covered. Kept it really short and said nothing else about how I am doing, etc. He emailed back this morning making small talk, giving me advice about computer stuff(unsolicited) and offering help again. He also said he would email me 'x' later today(info I need regarding practical thing). he hasn't, but that doesn't bother me.
So again not going to answer. I don't feel there is any need to respond at all. I feel the whole going dark thing doesn't work on H. Maybe I am missing something small tho. I think I will keep with it for now.
Work has been ok today, and went to gym after. I'm going to have something nice for dinner now and then work on my presentation for thursday. Nothing new really happening.
wish there was something I could actively do about things.
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09