I think it's a necessary step eventually...if you go into it with the right tools. Doing Retro first would provide you both more tools and hopefully some hope and inspiration!

It's scary, but you can't stay separated forever either.

Only you can decide if you are ready. Keep in mind that you may never feel as ready and confident like you did when you were first getting together though after all the turmoil.


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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