I love Lucky's response to you Thinker about treating your W as a girl you are hoping to date. Remember those days of dating? Every moment spent with them was wonderful - no pressure, no pain, all good. This is what I'm trying to bring back too - to try and remember not to pressure, not to feel disappointed, not to have so many darn expectations!
The fact your wife is willing to ML is huge, in my opinion. No matter how she acts otherwise, for women, ML is the most intimate connection.
Last edited by Maggie999; 05/18/0904:42 PM.
Me:47 H:49 3 grown kids Together: 29 years Sep: 5/8/09