I'm willing to open my mind to anything that has a reasonable likelihood of success. The likelihood has to offset the likely pain of even further rejection, as my wound is still open (or at least not fully healed) from her affair. I guess I'm just not seeing enough new data to suggest that more and/or different engagement by me would be met with anything other than the same-ol' same-ol'.
I'm going to try to pull way back this week, and see how she responds. GAL, no pursuit, no needy/grabby.
