Another newcomer - already finding help

[JKL2009]

Wanted to get something else out on this thread as a way to flesh out my SIT. Here are some good things and bad things I have observed over the past 6 weeks. Would love thoughts/comments/analysis:

Bad things
*Legal action
*EA/PA
*Wants to sell house and move out
*Refuses to go to counseling
*Says there is no hope
*Says she doesn’t love me, been a long time since she has
*Says this is the best thing for her and our S
*Sleeping in separate rooms
*Tells her friends/co-workers we are divorcing
*Says she is going numb to it all (not caring?)


Good things
*Stopped legal action (though wants to move forward with separation agreement)
*Still lives at home (for now)
*Continues to talk and listen at some level
*Week after announcing separation, kissed me passionately in middle of night (were still in the same bed then)
*Tickles me at night when reading books to S
*Laughs at things
*Says she has been “pleasantly surprised” at my positive behavior
*Has told friends/sister I am now acting like the man she fell in love with/married (but wonders if it is all an act)
*Spends time together (watching TV, going to mall, etc).
*Compliments me on some things
*Admits anger and resent me (better than apathy right?)

Classic signs of a WAW still not 100% sure of what she wants?