New to all of this

[In Limbo]

M25,

As Puppy said, arguments go both ways and make sense. So far, my H is only EA and not PA so I've decided to continue ML when it feels right for me. During much of our M, H felt I wasn't passionate enough in ML, so I feel it's important not to let our sex life die right now. I did set a boundary post-bomb that if he ever got to PA, not to come back to my bed. Now, many would argue that he would just lie about it. But since we've only ever been with each other, I believe that he cares enough about me not to put me at that risk. I'm 99% confident that if it goes full PA he will stop being intimate with me. In the past week, I have stopped initiating ML because it just didn't feel right. I guess I didn't want to initiate and risk rejection. Bascially, I'm doing whatever feels ok to me. But it's a personal decision you'll have to make.