<< Frankly, I don't know if she is going to want to work on the M as much as she craves to have attention from other men.
<< This falling asleep and and not having sex.........I don't know if that is something she can avoid or if it is games.
<< She is telling Lan what she "needs" for him to do for her, but what is she doing for him?
<< "...it certainly would take a professional to figure this all out"
Lan, Having followed you very closely for over a year this is exactly what I seem to make of it too. It may be now or never to insist that she seek professional help or the cycle will repeat.
