She was and still is the initiator. I have let it run its course and we have reconciled. We had some very long heart to heart talks this last week. We will still be going to MC as I think it is so very important not to backslide.
It was the best weekend in 2 or more years. We really connected and it seems like the weight of the world has been lifted from my shoulders. I cant say it enough...THANK YOU TO ALL ON THIS BOARD. A special thank you to sandi2. It was with your help that I gained the understanding of where my wife was coming from and that helped me find her...and helped me bring us back together. THANK YOU, THANK YOU THANK YOU.
M43 W38 D9 S6 M13 T15 Grenade 01/10/09 1st bomb 03/16/09 2nd bomb 07/22/09 1st thread Desperate for direction