I only have a brief moment to post PM, but I just wanted to say that I personally think you were awesome. You set boundaries that needed to be set, if you think you were harsh it was because you had to be. Honestly nothing you wrote was anti-DBing imo.
If he went off on one it was because he is having to face reality and it is the natural consequences of his choices.
Don't beat yourself up because honestly there is no need to.
