Went home on Wednesday at 2:30. W had just gotten home as well and wasn't naked in bed. She asked if we could do a quickie on the bathroom counter (btw, this was fun and exciting the first time or two, but I prefer the bed) and I said no and got in bed. She came to bed and complied (and after 8 weeks it was going to be a quickie no matter what) but I felt good that I hadn't wussed out about the bed. Next time I will be even more demanding on her following instructions as written, but this was definitely a positive change.
Thursday I left for Vegas with my Dad and returned yesterday. She started her job again today after 6 weeks of leave, so we are both highly scheduled and she is very stressed out. I have a vasect this Friday, so need to still try to "fit one in" this week and may come back for more advice. Thanks again.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
