Ok...so spoke with him. I told him I had 3 things to go over with him. Frist, I said I thought we tabled the D issue until you came to see me in June. No Pressure, but if this has changed I just need to know about it.
He said he is coming to see me in 2 weeks. He said, he feels like he has no choice. He will have to come. (WHATEVER)
Anyways, He said: He sent in the Financial Disclosure Form before he even gave me the D papers. He said the D is tabled for now. We are on the same page. I asked about some tax forms I have to fill out. He started talking to me about what he plans financially for this year. I just listened. Did not know why he was telling me any of this. He goes on to tell me where he is going to be for the next 2 weeks.
Then he asked if I got in my results for a test I took the day before he gave me the D papers. I said why do u want to know? He says " It would be really exciting if I passed and that would make him very happy" (Whatever) He said he will take me out for a fancy meal....WHATEVER....I said, I don't want a fancy meal, I just want you to talk to me! He said he is going to have to talk to me no matter what....no escape.
Am I supposed to feel bad for him? Hmmm....you give ur wife D papers without a reason or a fight or anything and all I have asked is that you come talk to me about why you want a D whenever you are ready. OH YEAH! TOUGH LIFE HE HAS!
Anyways....the short of it is that, the conversation was fine.
But then again, it is always fine. He was I think more communicative today than he has been....or maybe my expectations have seriously dropped. I kept trying to end the conversation, he kept it going for 5 min or so more.....
WTF is happenning. The fact that he is not fighting or making me feel bad...worries me. Everyone else's H are doing that....mine is still keeping his cool.........as usual...you would never see him sweat! Its annoying right now!
How do I approach this week long visit from him? He is coming in 2 weeks....I can definately NOT call him for 2 weeks...I know, pearlharbr, you probably have your doubts, but...I am going to make that my one goal for the next 2 weeks. Even if I accomplish nothing....I will not initiate any contact with him.
