Had a great time Saturday night at baseball game with S3 - they only played 4 innings over the 3 hour time frame due to fog - so the game get delayed and then postponed - So now I get to take S3 to another game. W was right he passed out on the way home and slept late the next morning. After getting up and having breakfast, I brought him to W around 11am. Knock on door no answer - her car is there. Call cell - she answers - she didn't expect me that early and was in shower - said she would be right out - i answered its ok, take your time, after a few minutes she opened door, asked me why I brought him back so early? told her its was her day with him and didn't want to take any time away from you.
Surprisingly she invited me in and wanted to know how the game was and everything else. She said didn't you get my text messages last night? No.. what messages? Oh I sent you a couple of text messages to see how the game was going. Checked my phone - never received anything - my inbox was full - apologized to her that I missed them. We talked for a little while and played with our S for a short period of time - altogether maybe there for 45-60 mins.
Then she tells me that she is taking him to game Tuesday, only because his cousin is learning to cheer and they will be doing a short cheer at the game - told her to have a great time.
Kissed S3 bye, hugged her(no reciprocation) and left on with my day. Still very little communication between us - really wish that there would be more between us, but at this point I'm doing alright with the little exchanges that we do have. Just trying to give her her space, and work on me, hoping that she decides to try and work everything out between us.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story