I said to H last night, 'I don't want the kids to see you in a bad light. I don't want this to affect their future relationships with you or with their future partners.' That comment must have seem very judging to him. I see that now but at the time, I didn't quite understand. Now I am kicking myself because he went on the attack on me as retaliation. So bad step on my part. Now he probably thinks I haven't changed a bit.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
