It was really hard. DBing while living in the same house with and being in constant contact with the person is much harder than some people think. Although I don't wish to get separated, I sometimes think "this would be so much easier if we weren't together all the time"
I do need to find a way to turn it from a sprint to a marathon - the sprint is burning me out.
Oh yeah, I hear you. When we still sit down and watch TV together, read boks t our S at night, eat meals together, etc. it makes it so hard. I try and tell myself that it means that my WAW still likes me, that she may not tell a should in the world this but she still deep down has a sliver of hope. The delicate balance now is to nurture that hope and not snuff it.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3