I hi Many oif us seem to go thru a lot of the same kinds of situations our was/mlcer are confused and do/say contrary things the new attraction ow is pulling them to this new life conbined with the mlc confusion..they do decieve themselved thinking their life will work out with this new person and everything was also a lie in mmy situation my xh wanted to keep everything a secret the fact he was living with 28 year old former secretary the fact he was blowing through every cent and busting our business at the seams my xh was not a bad man but when this all started 2 plus years ago he changed and has gotten worse over time I know yoiu are confused at his behavior but try to focus on taking care of you get counseling watch /protect your finances/credit/house or any shared property you will know and understand this more as time goes on it was not your fault this are his issues from his past and childhood thye come out now unresolved nothing you can really do except protect yourself and child peace
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