I also wonder what W means when she says "she needs to be able to count on you"? Is it about being on time?
I think for her it's interchangeable with trust. I really don't remember specific example where I've told her I would do things and haven't but I know I have. It bothers me that it still concerns her. For example Saturday I told her I was working the concession stand from 12-2pm as I was driving there I KNEW she was going to call to make sure I was still doing it and she did.
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Do you know what you want to see happen?
Right now I would just like her to be open to reconciliation by just trying MC again or dating or whatever and see what happens. I know if she actually opened her mind to it it could/would work. At the same time part of me just wants it over.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."