Good luck Kev. I hope for all your sakes that it works.
It's really fantastic that you can detach a little. Just be warned though, you are about to stir things up a bit so you won't be in this comfortable zone. But that's OK, you don't want to be comfortable anyway, right? You want to mix things and see where it leads. I totally understand. Good luck, really! I hope she reconsiders and sees that she's been an idiot to let you go and let another woman have you :-)
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09