New to all of this

[In Limbo]

M25,


As Puppy said, it's "normal" for those who have had EA to go through withdrawal from the OW when no longer in regular contact. Even if she just needed help/advice, your H may have felt good when they talked and be missing that now. Or he may have just been in a bad mood for whatever reason. I know it's hard when you don't have trust and rebuilding trust takes time. The key is to try not to indicate to your H when you are suspicious because that will just push him away. Keep your eyes wide open, but act "as if" you are not analyzing his every move, mood and motive. Just keep doing DB, you're doing well. Be careful moving forward to really deal with the issues and break the cycle so you guys can have a new M that will be fulfilling for both of you. Hang in there!