Thanks for responding. I will try real hard not to be reactive, she definately does it when the children are around which I think is unforgiveable.
To 'try something different' in regard to our R I implemented gucciloafers make her jealous strategy, which has definately sparked a reaction. If I was to tell her about my marriage vows (which I do take seriously) would this not defeat the object of gucci's advice?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years