WAW1 - Anticipation

[markhaving probs]

My wife called this morning, her tone was raised, agitated and stressed.

Because I turned my phone off yesterday when she left with the children, she believes I am seeing somebody else as actually stated by her this morning. I was dumbfounded that she actually made a statement like that as I have not given her any reason to assume I was seeing somebody which is so far from the truth. I did not confirm or deny her statement, but I said that is not fair as my daughter has tried to contact her when she has been on one of her Saturday night's out and her phone was off.

My wife has an answer for everything, she said the things my daugher is asking could be sorted by me (another attack on me). She went on about me not taking them to enough places, I could have them over night more often as I am not working etc etc. She went into another rant basically, I asked her to calm down and we can try and sort things in a controlled manner. This is within earshot of the children which, again is unnessary as she ring me after she has taken them to school. I said I would let her know later what my plans were and I would let her know as she said she needs to sort her diary out.

She said she does not care what I do or who I see, she rants at me, tells me I am still the same BLAH, BLAH, BLAH. I am trying so hard and yet she feels as though nothing has changed which is difficult to stomach as I am really enjoying my time with the children.

Why she is still like this and the attacks are just unfair and unjustified. Because of her assumption about me seeing somebody will probably give her carte blanche to do what see wants without any guilt.