"Well yesterday she asked me when I am moving out.I have no intention of leaving my kids.I am a stay at home dad and she works I have no income as I am disabled waiting on SSD.all of this is killing me and my children but I am trying to weather it out.she also has a stressful job (corrections officer) and works midnights.communication is almost non existant.to add to the mix she is getting advice from H sis who was D'd twice.I just want to scream.she has been sending the kids out of state to her parents every chance she gets and is just pushing me to my limits.I dont know if she is being spiteful or just trying to wear me down.any insight would be helpful"
The sad thing is that was one of the best post's I have read in a long time. It was easy to read for me.
Off we go....
"Well yesterday she asked me when I am moving out."
Why does she want you to move out? Brief description is fine.
"I have no intention of leaving my kids.I am a stay at home dad and she works I have no income as I am disabled waiting on SSD."
I gather from this that you simply have "no where" to go. This puts a lot more emphasis for me on why she wants you to go. You really need to pay attention. Focus on why she wants you to go. Include that in your "Brief" description.
"she also has a stressful job (corrections officer) and works midnights."
So.. she is "locked up" with people.. while you are asleep?
"communication is almost non existant."
Or.. is the communication 1 sided? Is she over the top.. or demanding? Simple yes/no will do.
Best I can tell you right now is.. just chillax.
Lets get a solid post from you. One that everyone can read.
"S 19 S 14 S 12 S 8 D 6"
From your signature I will assume that things.. are not.. that bad... or they are all adopted.
So on that note..
Lets get it out there.. Explain your situation in your words. Sit down and put some "Emotion" into your post. Walk me through it. I want you to center your thought on the here and now.. why she wants out.. and why you think you should work on it.
Can you do that?
By the way.. welcome to Db.com.
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