It doesn't mean you don't care about the outcome. Of course you care and you should care. It means don't interfere. It means step back and work on you. Also, it does not mean to do nothing financially. Obviously you take care of your finances. And if that means you have to talk about what to do with the house since neither of you can afford it, then that is a discussion you need to have.

You can't just sit back and let the house go into foreclosure. That directly affects your finances and credit and future. D or no D, you do have to watch out for yourself.

I would definitely talk to her about what she wants to do regarding the house. It doesn't mean your marriage is over. It just means that finances still have to be taken care of.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...