hugs)))) will send prayers your way Liv, you will be blessed, these are indeed trying times, and as things take their time to get settled I pray you find a good church and that you find peace even as things around you aren't perfect. Your sis sounds bitter, such a shame, I hope that from now own you take *any*thing she says with a grain of salt; it's unbelievable that such talk comes from someone who should be supporting you right now not try to tear you down.
As far as the kids, know that there have been times when I want to run away with the circus when my boy and girl fight, argh!!! they are trying to be independent, it is hard. Set your boundaries and mean what you say, no empty treats, reward any good behavior, make behavior charts.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
