I don't know. I don't think you can put your experience into someone else's and say they are having the same thing. I mean, she may be LD or not, I think that's why an IC would be good. It shouldn't be your job (or ours) to figure it out, but your W and an IC. My latest theory which could be totally wrong is we learn a lot from our parents and family, and maybe some of her behavior is learned from them.
BINGO.
Her mom and dad live platonically, giving each other only pecks on the cheek "hello", "goodbye" and "goodnight," and have never been a very affectionate family. Me, I come from a long line of huggers and kissers and lovers/not fighters.
FOO issues.
My wife did experience a brief increase in her desire after she turned 40, but it was very short-lived. She's told me she never MBs, and she really doesn't even like to hold hands or hug or kiss miss. She's just not a very "touchy" person.
to figure it out, but your W and an IC. My latest theory which could be totally wrong is we learn a lot from our parents and family, and maybe some of her behavior is learned from them. 