Thank you. Makes perfect sense and I will do that.
I am concerned about her self destructive behavior, especially the affairs. Seems related to a MLC. Not sure. I asked her to go to counseling before and she said she would but never did. Things improved dramatially, then the relapse. Best thing about now is that I am stronger, more determined and know so much more than the first time. I am confident in me. I hope she can see that and will decide she needs to know why she continues to do what she does.
