Hey K.. well, the way you posted it, it sounded like a nice weekend at least.. if there was no connection between you.. did you try? Did you kiss him? Even if he doesnt make moves toward you?
I am taking the option like Ian says, to NOT rehash the past, to just go forward, let him have whatever he offers, to let go of the past and hurt and resentments and just be happy and grateful. Anything else would be, IMHO and in my sitch, 'cutting my nose off to spite my face'. But then I love him, so its a no brainer. Whenever yuo describe H, you make a point to note that you are like friends, or coparents, or brother and sister even. So I dont know what you can do to rekindle the spark, as WELL as being independent and waiting for the work stuff to resolve itself.
I like that option by the way.. I think it is worth waiting, because he is incredibly slow, we know, but at least he has got to the point of verbalising it now to you AND friends and garnering opinions, so action cannot be far off (a matter of MONTHS?? hahhaa). Ok, not funny. xxx
