Well, I swear I am not some crazy lady...but, it will seem like it once you all read this...


Just listened to his voicemail again......he doesn't sound terrible...or exhausted. He sounds fine...actually. I have no idea why I heard him sound bad just an hour ago, listening to the same exact message???

Sigh. I just thought I should re-listen, bc the more I thought about what you said, pearlharbr, the more I thought, this is what he wants.....and I have left him alone for just one week. Not a lot of time in the big picture of things......I made it up in my head.....that he sounded terrible.

He is a strong personality as it is....a week is not going to be the answer. That is logical. I was being....wishful!


Me: 35 , H - 38
M: 3.5 yrs
R: 8 yrs
Separated: 4/28/09
Divorced: 9/11/09