BF broke up with me 2 1/2 weeks ago for the OW. His oldest son who I am very close with, is moving out of state, I found out last night, and I called BF today to say I'd like to stop by and see son if he was ok with that...son leaves tomorrow. BF said it wasn't a good idea for me to come over today and I said it was mean for him to keep me from seeing son. That led to the following dialog...any insight in to what he meant?
I said how I loved the kids He said he didn't see that before the break-up...(what does that mean? I was in their lives for 4 years and we were like a total family, I loved them like they were mine and we did all types of things together even without their Dad)
He said everybody misses me (what does that mean? does he?) He said he didn't want it to turn out this way between us (negative) He said he made a mess of things (an understatement)
Then I found out the reason he did not want me to stop over is that OW had come to visit for the weekend. At that point, I finally found it in me to speak up and tell him that he had been cold and cruel to break off so suddenly with me.
I did see his son after all. We met away from the house. Son said to me, "I am so glad to see you right now".
BF is supposed to come by this week to take care of some odds and ends.
