WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 8

[confusedinpa]

The boys and I had a late Mother's day brunch (we couldn't get reservations last week). I had the boys each pick out a flower to give her when we met up at the resturant. She seemed surprised and liked it.

The brunch went pretty well until my youngest asked my wife why she took so much stuff from our home. ACK! My wife said that we still had way more stuff at home than what she took. I tried to explain to her that my 3 year old was looking for the wooden dump truck that he and I built and I had told him it was at mommy's place. I then asked if he could bring the firetruck back so we could build it next weekend. She said that she had bought it and wanted to build it with him. I just shrugged and said ok.

On the way out, she said that she had to stop to go to the bathroom. I just said "You do?" - her apt was only 2 minutes from the resturant. She said never mind then. I said that she should go if she had to. She said she would wait. She seemed upset.

That was pretty much at the very end of brunch. Not the way I wanted to end it.

I was a little sad saying goodbye to the boys. They were both extremely huggy and clingy as I put them in her SUV. My wife didn't say much, just waved goodbye as she drove off.

I almost called a few times to ask if she was OK, but figured that was not the right thing to do. I will still call tonite to say goodnite to the boys and leave it at that.

I went to church after brunch and did the yard work and cleaned the house some. So goes the 4 week anniversary of her moving out......

I'm very down today. I was suppose to go grab beer and wings with one of my friends but he didn't call, nor did I try to call him. I'm really not in the mood....