I don't know. I don't think you can put your experience into someone else's and say they are having the same thing. I mean, she may be LD or not, I think that's why an IC would be good. It shouldn't be your job (or ours) to figure it out, but your W and an IC. My latest theory which could be totally wrong is we learn a lot from our parents and family, and maybe some of her behavior is learned from them. I don't know if that could be overcome or not, but I like to think we can change those things if we realize our issues & if we are willing to do the work.